PART 2:
Again — human behaviors, not exclusive to men.
1. Future Faking for Sex
Promising commitment to gain intimacy.
2. Emotional Unavailability
Avoiding vulnerability to maintain power.
3. Gaslighting
Making her doubt her memory or perception.
4. Disappearing (Ghosting)
Withdrawing without explanation.
5. Possessiveness Disguised as Protection
Control masked as care.
6. Love Bombing
Overwhelming affection early to hook emotionally.
7. Withholding Commitment
Keeping her around without clarity.
8. Anger Intimidation
Raising voice to shut down discussion.
9. Double Standards
Freedom for him, rules for her.
10. Blame Shifting
“You made me do it.”
11. Financial Control
Using money to dominate decisions.
12. Emotional Detachment After Sex
Warm before intimacy, cold after.
13. Minimizing Feelings
“You’re overreacting.”
14. Secretive Phone Behavior
Extreme privacy beyond reasonable boundaries.
15. Competitive with Partner
Turning relationship into dominance contest.
16. Strategic Silence
Withdrawing communication to regain control.
17. Victim Narrative
Every ex was “crazy.”
18. Ego-Based Apologies
“I’m sorry you feel that way.”
19. Public Charm, Private Disrespect
Charismatic socially, dismissive at home.
20. Using Breakups as Threat
“I’ll leave” to force compliance.